Be Mine? (Feb 2014 Newsletter)

February 14, 2014 § Leave a comment

A Note from Ducky…

I love Valentine’s Day. Actually I love any excuse to express love. Love your one and only. Love your friends. Love yourself! Enclosed are my valentines updates… xo – DuckyP.S. Oh! A story. I always tell you a story. This one will be short. I was Jane Doe. I was a homeless teenager. I had fallen into a coma due to kidney failure. Another homeless kid carried me to the ER and left me there. I had no identification and no one knew who I was. Having grown up in the foster care system, the day they had set an appointment for a social worker to come work with me was the day I popped the IV out of my arm and tip toed out of the hospital. I went back out into the safety of the streets. Maybe that’s why I love warmth, love, affection and quality sex so much? To be starved of it makes it so valuable to me. Every little drop of it.
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Love Ducky’s 2014 Valentine Best Gift List
For your lady love. For your man love. For coupling up love. For kinky love. I cover it all in this blog post… toys that won’t do you wrong.
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Toys teach us things about our bodies. They help us bond. They give us pleasure. They give us more excuses to talk about what we like with our partners… Read more about why I love toys so much in this guest blog post…
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Ducky’s Valentine 2014 Best Gift List

January 29, 2014 § 2 Comments



Vibrators equate love. Wait no. Vibrators equate orgasms and women LOVE orgasms. Vibrators made out of different materials will transfer vibration in very different ways. Try this heart-embossed silicone vibe, or a ceramic vibe or even an aluminum vibe — and explore the differences.

And just because it’s my new found love… check out the Cush. Feels so lush, yet it’s made of totally hypoallergenic, dual density silicone. This means it’s full of pleasurable fun and is body safe, boilable, or bleachable.



I have had two men who know and love sex toys tell me (independent of each other) that they love the Cobra Libre. They both said the control functions have a bit of a learning curve, but once you sort that out, then this is one of the best frenulum massagers on the market.

Then reach for his prostate with a 100% premium silicone Pro-Touch Vibe by Tantus. The Pro-Touch features a curved tip that when pointed toward his navel will massage his prostate. It’s about the same size as your finger so it’s a comfortable fit for beginners and advanced butt players alike. Be sure to pair his high quality sex toys with an equally high quality waterbased lube. Like Dude Lube.



These Lucky Love Dice are a simple way to flirt with your lover, initiate sex or jump out of the rut. This Sweet Heart Box gives you lots of excuses to explore with your tongue. Simple and sensual ways to bring new energy into your sex life.

You might also try to play with your positions. This Heart Wedge is just the thing to tip those hips up high for more direct G-spot and prostate play. A little power in your play can be fun! This I Like It Doggie-Style Strap not only gives awesome control to the person penetrating but it is comfortable for the lover who is receiving as well. You can play a little tug-o-war with your hips!



Love hurts with these Butterfly Nipple Clamps. The more you tug on them, the tighter they squeeze. A blindfold not only heightens your awareness, but with a trusted lover can help you forget your inhibitions and lose yourself to the experience.

Hot Wax burns at a cooler temperature. If your partner is laying  down, the higher you hold the candle, the cooler to drips will be when they land. So start buy creating some distance and if they are enjoying the spontaneous little warm wax splashes, move in closer and see how much more heated your adventures become! Be sure to only use wax that is made for skin play, as standard wax candles can cause burns. That totally ruins your sex thing.

Ducky DooLittle Creates Buzz About Tantus in an Unconventional Way

January 29, 2014 § 2 Comments

Tantus wrote this very flattering press release about our working relationship… made me blush! So fun to work with a company that loves me as much as I love them.

Ducky DoolittleDucky Doolittle, renowned sex-educator and sexual liaison was hired by Tantus, Inc. back in November of 2013, to deliver a message to customers and consumers in how to use Tantus products, and what their major differentiators are.  After three months, Doolittle and Tantus have created a synergistic and unified partnership that delivers a noteworthy and educational presentation, and has received an overwhelming response. Returning from a recent training in Toronto, TBMBM Wholesale Account Manager Sophia Springer had this to say. “It was a presentation like no other. It was wonderful to hear a new approach to selling that focuses on the human body, not just the toys themselves. We are very accustomed to product meetings that only talk about the materials, design, packaging, margins, and rarely about the ergonomics, purpose and overall benefits.” Doolittle who expresses product trainings in a unique and unconventional style delivers product trainings and information in a very interesting, upbeat, charismatic, yet informative way. “The major goal for Tantus and Ducky is to help our customers, and our distributor’s customers alike on why Tantus products are different. There is a societal disconnect between conscious consumers and their purchase decisions, and Ducky is here to help educate our customers in how to best convey that message,” said Walter Hinchman Director of Sales & Marketing. “I think that Tantus is doing something wonderful here, and no distributors have to have the traditional paranoia that comes with linking their top accounts to their manufacturers. It is clear that Ducky is not looking to sell to our clients, that is not her role, but rather provide retailers with the necessary tools to succeed in their own sales. We all win from this,” concluded Sophia Springer Wholesale Account Manager at TBMBM. Hurry and Book Tantus training with Ducky Doolittle Now by emailing All Tantus toys are made from Tantus’ own unique formula of 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone. The superior quality of Tantus silicone makes all Tantus toys hypoallergenic, non-toxic, phthalate free, odorless, boilable, bleachable and even dishwasher safe. These factors combined make Tantus toys the safest and most pleasurable toys on the market. A toy from Tantus is meant to be used and with minimal care Tantus toys can last a lifetime.

Sex Toy Geeks Unite!

January 13, 2014 § Leave a comment

IMG_4222You may have read Kate McCombs’ 7 Things I Learned About Sex Toys. A post she wrote about my Tantus 1.0 online training session. And this week Logan from Great Love Toys unleashes his notes from my Tantus 2.0 online training session. If you are as geeky about sex toys as we are… you’ll dig it. And if you write about sex toys or sell sex toys… join me for the upcoming online trainings. They are free.

(Photo of Tool Shed Toys in Milwaukee. I have never seen so much bright, silicone goodness packed into one tiny shop. You should go there. And find something to sick in you!)

Yes. A mitten fetish.

January 12, 2014 § Leave a comment

I sat down with the other students, feeling excited but also having this absolute sense of unknowing. How would Rachel unravel this dense topic of writing erotica? Without telling you too much (because I hope one day you’ll sit in her class and feel that sense of wonder too) I will say you can literally feel her passion for writing sex and this makes her so fun to learn with. In less than 2 hours time she inspired me to write erotic stories of…

  • a BDSM piano lesson
  • how to masturbate with a banana peel
  • a mitten fetish
  • a Pear of Anguish Steel Locking Anal Plug
  • a strip club dressing room
  • a gay leather bar
  • explicit details of what it is to have a deep oral fixation

I have already written and published a good share of erotica in my lifetime but never the less – this class was very inspiring.  Rachel’s prompts and exercises has my mind all lit up! The stories unfolded faster than my hands could write. I left feeling motivated, with a notebook full of ideas. And on top of all that, it was really cool to write without the isolation that so often comes with being a writer.

If you have a desire to write a story for your Valentine, to be published or to expand your creative mind in any way – go! You will not regret it. The workshop was called Writing Erotica for Pleasure & Money. She is presenting the class again on Friday, January 17th at the New York Academy of Sex Education.

And who knows where your erotica writing may take you? Watch this mini-documentary (circa 2003) to see where it has taken me!

Blow Up Doll in Space

January 10, 2014 § Leave a comment

I love it when sex toys and science mingle.

EZ Connoisseur Harnesses Size Guide

January 8, 2014 § Leave a comment


It’s my new favorite harness from Tantus! Super soft leather. Single strap. One size that is VERY variable. It might be a good harnesses for you?

Here’s my napkin drawing that gives you the details to help you figure out if this luscious harness was built for your ass and harnessing needs. Get out a measuring tape and see how it measures up.


The EZ Connoisseur Harness will fit the following Tantus toys…

SplishRocket | Charmer | Flurry O2 | Adam O2 | Acute (my favorite!) | Compact | Silk Small | Silk Medium | Silk Large | Echo Vibe | Tsunami VibeBuzz 1 VibePurr VibeGoddess VibeLeisure Vibe (great if you have a belly and need a toy with more reach!) | John Doe Vibe

The measurements are the same for the Nurse Connoisseur Harness. You can see The Redhead Bedhead‘s review below. And she also explains why you may want to measure up.

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